Downsize & Simplify

  LR_01282013 LR_UP_01282013A long overdue update on our home building project – Our Little House in the Woods.

I had good intentions of regularly posting updates to keep you aware of our progress on our home building project.

Well, the actual work got in the way of the Blog Posts – Sorry.
Now that we are closing in on the 2 year anniversary of breaking ground, I am posting one of my final photo updates. We still have a few things to complete, like the kitchen cabinet doors and some touch up painting, but we are moved in and quite settled, finally!

It’s not a big home or a fancy home, but we built it entirely on our own. We saved a lot of money by purchasing supplies and materials on sale, second hand, by barter, through Craigslist, and trade. It’s a great feeling to have accomplished all of this. Of course most of the credit goes to my hard-working, general contractor, husband who completes every project down to the very last detail – No procrastinating for him!

The cabinet doors, stairway and railings, and built in bookcases were primarily built from lumber harvested from the trees on our beautiful wooded lot. We are very grateful for the friends and family who gave up many weekends and the comfort of their air conditioned homes on some 90+ degree days, and miserably rainy days,Bookcase_01282013 to help us frame and roof our house and stay within our deadlines. We are truly blessed!

Aaaahhhh……….. SMILE!

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Get the Junk Out of the Trunk

In the “old days,” people used their cars simply to get from Point A to Point B. But today, vehicles are used for much more than transportation, so it’s no wonder they get messy. To get car clutter under control, starts by figuring out how you use your car. Do you drive your kids’ soccer carpool? Do you work out of your SUV? Do you run daily errands? Evaluate how you use your car, and it will be easy to make — and keep — it tidy.

• Get papers under control by creating an on-the-go filing system. Whether you office out of your car, or just need to have lots of information at your fingertips, create a simple filing system. Your local office supply store has a variety of portable, lidded file boxes to choose from, or use a simple plastic crate. Label hanging file folders with broad categories, and slide important papers in the correct spots.

• If you work from your car, create a portable office. In addition to a portable filing system, include essential office supplies, such as pens, sticky notes, paper, envelopes, and stamps in a neat box.

• Take note. Brilliant ideas have a way of sneaking up on us. Make sure you don’t forget them by stashing a small hard-cover notebook to catch those moments. Or, to keep your eyes on the road, tote a mini-recorder or call your voice mail and leave reminders there.

• Ward off the munchies. Keep healthy and easy-to-eat snacks easily accessible for yourself and hungry kids. Fill a small shoe box with granola bars, small bags of almonds or walnuts, dried fruit, juice boxes, and water.

• Run errands with ease. Put a crate in your trunk for clothing that needs to go the the tailor or dry cleaner. You can also add items that need to be returned to stores, library books and movies ready for return, and loaned items that need to find its rightful owners. Take a peek in the box each morning and see what you can get rid of that day.

• Consider some specialty car organizers. Discount stores offer a variety of them, such as back-of-the-seat organizers for kids, visor organizers for CDs, collapsible crates for groceries or sports equipment, and much more.

• Toss it out and tidy up. Keep a nylon or plastic garbage bag in the car so messes get cleaned up as you go. Take five minutes at the end of each day to empty the bag and tidy up the entire vehicle. This small investment of time will keep it neat and organized. To ensure it stays clean and crumb-free too, plan to vacuum and wipe down or dust the interior every week or two, or invest in occasional visits to your neighborhood car wash.

© 2006 Articles on Demand™

Preventing Identity Theft

The statistics are scary: Twenty percent of Americans identify themselves as victims of identity theft. (Source: Privacy and American Business.) Don’t let yourself join those alarming statistics! With the help of your social security number, a thief can steal your identity and wreak havoc with your credit status and life. Best case, the thief will go on a spending spree with your credit cards. Worst case, he’ll get new cards, open new accounts, take out loans, and/or commit a crime in your name. You’ll spend up to 600 hours and $1400 in out-of-pocket expenses to clear your name and repair your credit. Here’s what you can do today to keep yourself — and your good name — safe.

• Never carry your social security card in your wallet. It’s just too dangerous to have that information where it can fall into the wrong hands. Also, don’t carry your birth certificate or passport unless absolutely necessary.

• Be very cautious when giving out your social security number. Most places that ask for it do not require you to provide it. Ask first, “What happens if I don’t want to provide that?”

• Make sure your mail is delivered to a locked box. Or try to collect your mail as soon as it’s delivered to your mailbox. Place outgoing checks or sensitive documents directly in a postal service collection box. And opt out of receiving unsolicited credit card offers by calling 888-5-OPT-OUT.

• Carry only the bare minimum of credit cards in your wallet. Opt for credit cards with your photo on them. And don’t carry your checkbook.

• Don’t use common identifiers for passwords. For example, don’t use your mother’s maiden name, your birth date, or your pet’s name. Make it difficult for thieves to impersonate you by adding passwords to your financial accounts. Change passwords frequently.

• Opt out of having your financial information shared by banks and brokerage and insurance companies. Federal law requires these companies to give you the right to opt out of having your information shared.

• Toss computers with care. Make sure to completely wipe out all information on the hard drive before you discard.

© 2006Articles on Demand™

 

Who thought Garage Doors would be so exciting?

As we continue to work on our new little home in the country, I find myself getting tired of this self-imposed Gypsy Lifestyle.

I always knew how important “Home” was, but am realizing that even though I am very grateful, I also took it for granted.

We are very lucky to have so many people in our lives who care about us and have opened their homes to us and provided us with ideas, support, and brute strength. ♥

Still I find myself yearning for a little privacy, a little “my space.” This past weekend we buttoned up the house ~~ well, we now have locks on all the doors and doors in all the door jambs. When I step back and look at my little house with its garage doors in place (yes, it’s still missing the outside lights – coming soon) I feel a sense of safety, security, privacy. Now people can knock on my door; I am home.

We still have a lot of work to do, but we have carved out a little spot in the basement to set up camp while we dote on the details, and We Have Doors!

Purposeful Parenting

It’s a great time to teach a child to get organized! Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, friend, or neighbor, the skills you share will remain with kids for a lifetime. Here are some tips that can be used with your favorite kids of all ages.

• Make organizing a part of each day. It’s important to teach kids that every item they own has a “home” where it needs to return when they’re done using it. Let kids know that they need to be responsible for their own possessions. Establish simple routines like making their own beds and keeping the floor clear. Have a ten-minute clean-up every night before bedtime.

• Sort and containerize. Teach kids to group similar items together, then find appropriate-sized containers that hold them. With colorful markers, write the name of what’s inside. This makes it easy for retrieval, and, even more importantly, for clean-up! For kids who can’t yet read, glue photos or drawings of the objects on the front of the containers.

• Help them downsize. Often, the sheer volume of “stuff” in a kid’s life — toys, sporting equipment, books, collections, clothes — is overwhelming. Help kids downsize every six months by donating seldom-used toys and outgrown clothing. Establish a “new toy in, old toy out” system where some purging takes place before shopping. Talk to them about how it feels — and how important it is — to donate to local charities.

• Establish a great homework routine. Use an “in” and “out” box system for school papers that need to be seen by caregivers. Have a designated study area. Keep it well-stocked with supplies so kids don’t have an excuse to leave the area. Caregivers should learn that they don’t have to save every single project made by the child. Post them temporarily, then take them down and store in a drawer, tote, or even an unused pizza box. At year’s end, help kids select their “Top 10” favorite to save. And if you’re overwhelmed or desire more tips, find out if your professional organizer has experience working with kids!

© 2006 Articles on Demand™

Painting

I know this sounds silly, but it took me weeks to choose just the right color. Our old house was a shade of beige and I wanted something different, something natural, but a color. My favorite color is green and my husband expects every room in our new house will be a shade of green (it won’t be, but don’t tell him that). As I cautiously began to apply the chosen color of paint to our house, stepped back several times amazed that I love the color!! Throughout the day, as our many visitors stopped by, everyone commented on the great color I chose. Yeah Me!!

From Homeless to a Bounty of “Homes”

When I tell people that I am “on my way home” or “going home” and they ask me where that is. I had to stop and think about it. Then I answered — “These days Home is wherever I am sleeping tonight.”

We are in the middle of building our little house in the country, but it isn’t ready to live in yet. We sometimes camp, sometimes stay with family members, and soon will be able to stay in our new house. A wonderful gift was granted to us the week we were moving out of our apartment, the end of July. Our friend’s daughter offered to let us stay in her house in Cottage Grove while we are in the cities. She moved all of her things into her fiance’s house, and considers our residence in her house a barter for all of the work my husband has done on her house. A Win/Win!!

Managing An Organized Move

Is moving day fast approaching? According to the Employee Relocation Council, moving to a new home is the third most stressful life event (following death and divorce). To ease the transition, follow these tips to make your move smooth.

• Consider “staging” your home. This process of neutralizing, decluttering, organizing, and beautifying allows potential buyers to picture themselves living in the house by tapping into their emotions. Staging also starts the “letting go” process for the sellers, as they transform their beloved home to a more neutral-looking home. Staging will help you sell your home quickly, at the best possible price.

• Plan your move date at least four to six weeks ahead. The most popular times for moves include May through September and the very beginning and end of each month. So if you’re hiring a moving company, contact them soon. Call family and friends for trusted mover recommendations.

• Start packing seldom-used items now. Ask your grocery store to set aside cardboard boxes for you. Pack heavier items in smaller boxes and lighter items in larger boxes.

• Organize your boxes. Number each box and label which room it belongs in. Keep a separate list indicating the box number and its contents. When you get to your destination, unpack everything as soon as possible.

• Fill out change-of-address forms at the post office. And be sure to update important documents which include your address and phone number (e.g. driver’s license, checks). Bring your current phone books to your new home in case you need to contact people in your old town.

• Move valuables yourself. Irreplaceable family photos, heirlooms, and financial and legal documents should be packed and transported by you instead of your moving company.

• Send out postcards to family and friends with your new address and phone number, along with a photo of your new home!

© 2006 Articles on Demand™

 

Simplify Your Life

The only way to truly “get organized” is by simplifying. This means focusing on the important things in life — ridding yourself of anything that merely takes up time, space, money, or energy without giving you any benefit.

• REDUCE UNSOLICITED MAIL: Write to Mail Preference Service, Direct Marketing Association, P.O. Box 9008, Farmingdale, NY 11735-9008, and ask to be removed from their mailing lists. Provide them with variations of your name that mailing lists are using.

• BUY IN BULK: Think of how much time you spend “running errands.” Reduce that time by purchasing three- to six-month supplies of things you use on a daily basis — toothpaste, paper towels, postage stamps, etc.

• SAY NO: Think about everything you say YES to: community involvement, errands for others, visiting, running around. Think about how they benefit you, your family, your business, your health, and your mind. If they do not benefit you, learn to say “NO!”

• GET RID OF THE CLUTTER: Start each day with a clean desk or tidy house. You’ll be more efficient when things are in order. Get rid of the things you don’t need. You’ll be amazed at what you can do without.

Take some time this week to think of ways you can simplify your life. Please contact me if I can help you reach your goals for organizing or simplifying your life!

© 2006 Articles on Demand™

Conquering Procrastination

The word procrastinate comes from the Latin procrastinatus, which means, literally, “forward tomorrow.” If you’ve been putting off till tomorrow what you could — and should — do today, then recognize that procrastination is a habit that can be broken. But if won’t happen overnight. It takes 21 days to form a new habit. So set a date, (Mondays work well, because they feel like a fresh start) and track 21 days to stay the course.)

To start, give yourself a reason to stop procrastinating. Maybe you’ll improve your financial situation because you’ll pay your bills on time. Or you’ll impress your family, friends, and coworkers because you’ll appear productive and efficient. Or you’ll be less stressed because you are on top of your to-do list and arrive on time. Whatever the goal, keep it in mind throughout the first 21 habit-forming days.

To get a handle on procrastination, start writing. Use a spiral notebook or planner to capture all your tasks. Do not use scraps of paper or sticky notes. You’ll want everything in one place. Keep a running master list of tasks that need to be done. (It might be really long.) But then, each evening, make a smaller “to do today” list for the upcoming day, either on a separate page in your notebook, or on the next day’s planner page. List only the most important things you need to accomplish that day, and keep the number of tasks realistic and attainable. (About five things usually works well.) The next morning, you’ll know exactly what needs to be done, and you can concentrate on those above all else. That evening, evaluate your list. Anything not completed moves forward to the following day’s task list, and a few more items are added. And take a moment to permanently remove tasks from your list that no longer contribute to your goals or happiness.

As you’re writing your to-do list, make sure to break tasks down into realistic-sized chunks. If your goal is to organize your messy kitchen, the enormity of it will seem daunting. Instead, break it down into one-hour tasks: toss out all expired foods in pantry; clean out refrigerator; organize junk drawer; set up mini-filing system for kitchen. Completion dates are important, so assign specific tasks to specific days. You won’t organize a kitchen in a day, but over the course of a week, you can do it! And each day’s successes will give you the drive to keep going.

For truly unpleasant tasks, set a timer for 15 minutes, and just do it. Nearly anything is palatable for a quarter of an hour. It’s also helpful to see that most unpleasant things don’t take nearly as long as we think they will. You may hate going through your in-basket at work. But just 15 minutes each morning and evening is enough to review, sort, do the quickie tasks, and assign the longer ones to your planner. If you’re feeling sluggish, complete an easy job first, to get your momentum going. Also, do the toughest tasks when your body is most alert — some people function better first thing in the morning, while others perk up later in the day.

Treat time like a precious gift. Are you a people-pleaser? If you’re truly behind in your own tasks, don’t add any more optional to-do items until you’re caught up. It’s okay to say no. It’s okay to delegate. It’s okay to take some time for yourself. And stop saying, “If I can’t do it perfectly, I won’t do it at all.” Limit choices, let good enough be okay, and move forward. Perfection is not realistic or required in life.

Reward yourself. After 21 days of “just do it” action, treat yourself to something nice… lunch with a friend, a luxurious nap or bubble bath, a hot-fudge sundae, a concert, or an afternoon with a favorite book or movie. You’ve earned it!

© 2007 Articles on Demand™